When Pat Benatar said, “Love is a battlefield” she wasn’t lying, was she?
When a relationship begins to take a turn for the worst, it throws a monkey wrench in your whole life.
At this very moment, are you thinking about whether you should stay in your relationship or cut your losses by leaving now? Whatever decision you make could be life-changing. So you have questions, fears, doubts. Lots of them…
“Am I doing the right thing?”
“What if he changes?”
“Is this relationship healthy?”
Because this isn’t just a decision about which pair of shoes to wear to a party or which purse better compliments your dress and brings out your eyes.
This is a decision that could possibly affect the quality of the rest of your life. So whether you’re simply disenchanted with your partner, or can’t seem to get on the same page with him, or even worse … this is something that you absolutely need to get right.
And this is just one, very mild example. There are so many women out there silently dealing with much, much worse.
Well, you wouldn’t be reading this if you didn’t already know this is way easier said than done. Making the decision to leave a relationship can be fraught with stress and fear
Fear that you’ll make the wrong decision…
Fear of being alone…
Fear that you won’t ever recover from this heartbreak…
Fear that you’ll never find someone new or that it’ll take forever…
How will my partner react? What will my family and friends say? What if I never, ever get over this?
BUT I DON’T WANT TO START OVER!!!
I say “potential” because you may decide not to leave, and that is a valid choice. But whichever road you ultimately choose…
You want a fresh start…
You want a way forward that you can feel good about…
You want a return to normalcy…
You want to feel like yourself again…
You want to move on with your life one way or the other!
Let’s fast forward about a year and a half after the scenario I described above. You’re deliriously happy and madly in love with yourself. It wasn’t always an easy road but you know that taking the time to ask yourself the tough questions and get the clarity you needed was instrumental in helping you understand your own intuition.
I can help you get from where you are now – confused, stressed, and lonely with no idea what to do next … To where you want to be – you’re happier and more empowered. You’re at peace….whether you decided to stay or leave.
If you aren’t sure if you should keep fighting for this relationship. If you can’t shake the feeling that your partner may not be “the one”, let me help you take an objective look at the whole situation.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone through this and wished that I had someone to guide me through such a sensitive, life-changing decision. This is why I created Split Decision – a 30 day personalized coaching program just for you — so you never have to go through this ordeal alone.
This program is for you if you can’t decide once and for all whether to stay or to go. I am a woman first and a coach second. As a woman, I love human connection. Whether it is a romantic relationship, a friendship or a business partnership, I wholeheartedly believe in the transformative power of connecting to another human soul. As a coach, my number one priority is that everyone I partner with is happy, healthy and whole…..whether alone or in a relationship.
I never, ever, never, try to convince or sway anyone to leave their partner or stay with their partner. The decision is YOURS and I am here to support you.
Stay in the relationship and find ways to maintain your identity. If you decide to stay, you will still have to do the work to resolve or accept whatever made you question the relationship in the first place.
- Your true values and their role in your relationship
- How to take emotions out of the equation and determine if the relationship serves your whole well-being
- How to avoid rebound
- How to identify valuable lessons that you can use in future relationships
- Clarity about whether or not the relationship is worth fighting for
- You’ll also get a copy of “The Goodbye Guide”
You’ll also have access to me via email and text (in case you have a vulnerable moment and need a power boost to get you through it). You’ll get empowering exercises every week so that you can implement and integrate what we’ve talked about. And then you’ll get my best resources for further reading.